Enjoy with Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationships can be complex and usually take time, effort, and practice to get right. Now everybody knows that the main way to keep communicating during long distance relationships is through the telephone. Whether the home phone or cell phone, because we need to speak to our loved one. But let’s face it people, we will get tired of talking on the phone sometimes. Especially if it becomes routine.

Communicate often on the phone during long distance relationships is OK but it’s not really important.
Why? Both of us have their own activity, we do not need so much to spend their time just for our couple. If we just spend too much time on the phone with them, we are afraid of disturbing their time also their activity.
based on my own experience (I am in longdistance relationship also right now), I just talk on the phone for a while, as I need. Because our biggest willingness is we want to see each other not just talk to him.
but sometime if I miss him so much or he miss’ me so much we’ll make an agreement to spend our free time for talking on the phone.

And now, what should we do are:
 Call each other at unexpected time of the day to shake up the routine call schedule we all get into.
 Only talk on the phone as long as there is something to talk about. If there is extended silence on both ends of the phone, you will get both irritated each other and get into the stupidest argument.
 If you call your lover and they are busy with something meaningful (work, conversation with close friend, or alone time) be understanding and allow them to call you back. Give each other space and even in long distance.
 Spontaneously send each other silly or romantic text. Maybe even have a conversation just through text to mix things up.
 Pay your lover undivided attention when talking to them.
 Make true on yourself that they are fine there and don’t forget to keep positive thinking.


So after a while I discover that just because we live far apart from each other, doesn’t mean we should spend so many hours on the phone that we get on each other nerves. You can and will survive the challenges of a long distance relationship. You will feel down at times, but as long as you keep communicating, keep positive thinking and stay active and know the next time you are going to see each other, then all will be fine.

Good luck with your relationship!